My own opinions.

If we require spirit to come to us with help or guidance then we must ask them in the correct manner. They are spiritual beings and will come of we call, but only respond in a fashion that is suited. If we ask for their help with humility, they will always give it to us, in whatever way, shape or form that they can. This help and proof can often come to us in a very dramatic clarification. If we demand of them, then the answers may come, but may be harder to decipher.

Suppose you merely demanded readings from a medium without giving that medium the respect that they deserve. This will affect your chances of recieving positive guidance. This then makes you doubt the quality and integrity of the medium, when really all you needed was to show respect and humility. The love from spirit would have gushed forth.

Please don't take others mediumship for granted. Just because they have developed their gift to a level where they can help you with your problems, don't think of it as your right. It is not your right.

Most mediums will help where they can, and be only too pleased to do so. This does not mean they are at your beck and call whenever you need guidance.

Try to think ahead and ask yourself if you could possibly sit for five minutes and ask for guidance from spirit yourself. You may recive the answers you are seeking.

When you really need love and guidance from the spirit world, it will come to you no matter what.


Patience, love, respect, gratitude and love all play their parts in drawing the right guidance in close.

Well said!

Completely true thank you

I just edited this to add that sometimes, If you read back on a message you were given ages ago more information will come from the same reading. I do this and it's given me fantastic results. Appreciate what you are given.

Yep, Purelight, that happens alot! If something makes no sense or you have no idea what it might be about, just go back and re-read that part at a later time and it will make sense then. Sometimes, it just hasn't happened yet or we just totally forgot about it.

Another important thing to remember is that we have no control over what spirit tells us. It may not be something that you asked about or even want to hear, but if spirit wants you to know, that's what will come through.

well said ady, we can only do our very best with respect and love from people here on the earthplane, as it help's spirit to come through, To point out we ask for all communication from Spirit world to be given in God's name.

We know He has gives us the creative force of Love to be of service to all, also to know its in spirit time, not ours. When we give advice, it will be from spirit only and its up to yourselves to do what you will with it. Spirit will support you & love you.
I can only speak for myself, l believe l am a message relayer for spirit, the messages are not mine to keep, and that l will give love and respect to those who ask for my help, to be of service its not just spirit that mediums work for they work for their fellowman too. god bless skydancing xxx

I just got the chills. LOL I totally agree with ya.

That is very true. Thank you for sharing!

Thanks for that and all of the responses. As usual, all of you give me interesting things to ponder.